Having a Family sucks

Fuck, I hate family. My mother spends tons of money on shit like shoes and crap and then asks for money from me so that she can go pay bills or buy food for the family. It's been like this since I turned 15 and actually got a job. She rarely pays me back when I lend her $150-$700 or pay bills of that amt. I can't even save up money to get out of the friggin house for christ sakes! Just this morning she asked for more money after buying a $250.00 dress. Now I feel like shit and ready to BECOME A HERO. Anyone else here go through shit like this?

If you can't get rid of a blood-sucking tick like your mother, then you don't deserve to be called a man.  There really isn't a problem here except YOU.  YOU are the key to solving the issue.  So do it, or resign yourself to a fate of feminization.  Act -- and act decisively -- or just put on a pair of panties as you accept what you really are.