How to disrupt the social anarchy

How do you take away all the popularity and pretentious bullshit of college life and just live a normal life? I just get tired of having to conform, to feel like its somehow my fault when someone calls me "strange" or "off" when I really could care less about their existence. How can you get away from all that and still function in normal society?

if you can't fly under the radar, you are a fucking failure.