Name: Anonymous 2008-01-05 18:21
It seems I have a unique problerm of which I am tired. I am a 30 year old man and strange as it may seem I have never so much as held hands with a woman (in a romantic way).
Predictably I am still a virgin. Women check me out a lot when I am shopping, etc and some will even approach me but sadly my conversion ratio is zero. I am 5'6", 310 pounds but quite fit. I am gainfully employed and make enough money for a decent living. Sometimes a woman will invite me out to dinner and will show all the classical signs that she is interested in me but I somehow become clueless as to how to initiate intimacy. I think that maybe I am afraid of intimacy. How can I break this barrier which is affecting my potential for happiness. Am I the only one with this problem? Should I just end it all? On many occasions women have asked me if I am gay because of my failure to initiate any form of physical contact. I have no feelings for men at all. My sex drive is somewhat above normal and I am getting sexually frustrated. Please help me. Sometimes I feel that I am one of those people who are born to be alone forever
Predictably I am still a virgin. Women check me out a lot when I am shopping, etc and some will even approach me but sadly my conversion ratio is zero. I am 5'6", 310 pounds but quite fit. I am gainfully employed and make enough money for a decent living. Sometimes a woman will invite me out to dinner and will show all the classical signs that she is interested in me but I somehow become clueless as to how to initiate intimacy. I think that maybe I am afraid of intimacy. How can I break this barrier which is affecting my potential for happiness. Am I the only one with this problem? Should I just end it all? On many occasions women have asked me if I am gay because of my failure to initiate any form of physical contact. I have no feelings for men at all. My sex drive is somewhat above normal and I am getting sexually frustrated. Please help me. Sometimes I feel that I am one of those people who are born to be alone forever