sigh...good lord, what in the hell is wrong with all of you? Bitches aren't that important. Its just like porn, only 2 times better. Stop whining about getting girls, you know the necessary critera.
1. be confident
-meaning, go out, be sociable, be friendly
2. be knowledgable
-know more than just anime, nerds. Research music, books, art, everything and anything to keep a conversation going.
3. GO OUT
go out and do SOMETHING other than just staying at home on the computer. You can easily meet girls anywhere. Just be able to present yourself as friendly and comfortable. You want the girl to want to talk to you again. Do that and your golden.
4. (one of the most important ones) DON'T BE A SKEEZE
this one has gotten me in trouble many times. Don't automatically give off those sexual vibes. Remember, femmes are more sensitive than men, so they can sense your intentions from a mile away. You have to build up the whole sexual thing to the point where SHE wants to take your pants off.
Now, if you have to ask such a question, you aren't ready for mutual sex. My suggestion: find a hooker, or search online.