so, im not too sure if it really called a "relashionship" but the more we dont talk the more it drives me crazy. im not totaly sure if it drives him crazy though. but earlyer today we finaly got to talk again. and i told him i missed him. and he said he missed me too. but then he also went farther to say, that he was gald that we both felt the same way. lately i've been telling him i love him a lot more. and hes been saying it back everytime. but its some what rare anymore when he just says it. he also said that he was thinking about me. and i think about him all the time. we have so many things in common, and we talk about everything. but theres 3 problems. 1 being the long distance. 2 being that hes a lot older than me. and 3 being that i've never had sex. so yeah since hes older idk how he would take that. and im sort of affraid to tell him. i mean i dought that will make him not love me or care about me anymore, but still, it might scare him or something. or he might like the tought, idk. what dose anon think?
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sageb12007-12-10 3:45
some advice. idk how old u are but these are the rules for long distance love:
1) Google "unconditional love" and live it.
2) If he gave a name and city, use 411.info to see if his address comes up for the phone number he provides (landline only), but do not tell you are checking up on him unless he starts to get inconsistent.
3) It also help a lot to spend a little time after a phonecall and use Notepad or a personal wiki app to take notes about what he said to you that day, keeping out the stuff you wouldn't let your mother find in your diary.
some questions:
Is sex before marriage compatible with your current moral code / beliefs? In short, do you believe in premarital sex? This is a simple yes or no answer and it's more appropriate to discuss this with your LD lover than with us readers.
Could you write the first draft of your posts in MSWord or similar wordprocessor and spellcheck before posting on 4chan? That way we the readers can use less of our brains for spellchecking consciously and more of it for coming up with advise!
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Anonymous2007-12-10 4:00
it seems as if you are a chick posting on 4chan. you now have two options:
[]tits
[]GTFO
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Anonymous2007-12-10 6:54
Do yourself a favour and don't be in a ridicuous disfunctional relationship. You're wasting your time, find someone you can actually hang out with at least once a day, like everyone else who isn't an internet retard.
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Anonymous2007-12-10 9:20
Long distance relationships tend to fail, just give up.