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Name: Anonymous 2007-11-04 19:21

Hey 4chan i got some stuff on my mind i ussaly dont come in here to bs about shit..but yet im confused and dont know what to do...i know this is gona be long and most of you wont read it but i just need to get this shit out. Ok about 7 or 8 months agoe i meet this girl she dated my best friend and we hit it off...eventually we start hanging out like everyday to the point we are inserable and most people see us instead of two seprate people but a couple like a single entity but we were just friends...so we hang out for months everyday together. everyone we meet we meet together...we all ways were together never apart. Recently alot of people have been saying that they think we like eachother...we both avidly deny it. now she has a boyfriend...(she dated him for the soul pourpose of cock blocking this other girl)...but now we have been getting angry at eachother alot ever since she has this new boyfriend. Idk 4chan we hung out alone for the first time in like 3 weeks and she said it was the most relaxed she had been in a long time like no wories or nothing...we both are very open with eachother...shes known me only for a few months but considers me just as high if not higer then her bestfriend of years.
I mean she tells me almost everything like i know more about her then her bestfriend of years does...idk what to think 4chan...im so confused does she like me or not...i mean like everyone that knows us both sais that either i like her or she likes me or we like eachother...idk...for the first time in my like im truly at a loss of what to think do or say...i mean i come on here and rag on people all the time but i guess its my turn to get ragged on now so go for it.

Name: benxtaron 2007-11-05 3:07

Are you sure you are not me 1 year ago?  Cause this stuff happened to me exactly the way you described it about a year ago.  Well, if you are me, wait one year, cause believe me, it just got a hell of a lot better.

And if you aren't me, then do this:

Come right out, and tell her how you feel.  You say that you two are very open with each other, then prove it.  If you love her, then damn it, tell her.  The heart wants what the heart wants, and if it doesn't get some answer, it will effing kill you over it.  Don't ruin your life over this.  Gather your balls, and tell her how you feel.  And if she doesn't feel the same way, try to be friends, because then eventually, she will see you for the real deal that you (probably) are.  But if she really does feel the same way, then you two will find a way to make it work.

Sorry if I was a little harsh, but it took someone telling me harshly to do the exact same thing with my gf.  I loved her for a long time, but couldn't get the courage to say one damn thing to her, until I finally realized that maybe she did feel the same way, and we talked, and before you know it, we are together and I haven't been happier in my entire life.

So go for it, bro.  Thats all I gotta say.  Enough Dr. Phil shit from me.

I AM OUT . . .

{-Ben

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