Male RAPE

Myth: Men can't be sexually assaulted.

Reality: Men can be, and are, sexually assaulted every day. Any man can be sexually assaulted regardless of their size, strength, appearance, occupation, race or sexual orientation. Male rape can happen at home, work, out doors, in your car, in the military, prisons, in locker rooms, rest rooms, public toilets, in fact just about anywhere a rapist thinks they can get away with it, and it can happen to ANY male.

Myth:  Only gay men are sexually assaulted.

Reality: Although gay men are raped slightly more often than heterosexual men this is due more to the fact that they can be the target anti-gay violence, that often includes acts of rape, plus that gay men are at far more risk of date rape attacks from other men.

Heterosexual males can be, and are, also raped in very large numbers.

Myth: It is only gay men that sexually assault other men.

Reality: The vast majority of men who sexually assault other men identify themselves as heterosexual.

Myth: Male rape only happens in prisons.

Reality: Rape does happen a lot in prisons, there is no doubt about that. In fact, in the USA, it is said that there are far more male rapes every day in prisons alone than there are rapes of all females in the USA. However, males are raped outside of prison every day of every year, in their homes, cars, at work and just about anywhere. Male rape also happens in the military and armed services as well, collages, universities, and all sorts of places.

http://www.aest.org.uk/survivors/male/myths_about_male_rape.htm

I know I'm an intelligent, happening and handsome guy. Lately (and especially since I've been going to the gym) I compare myself to the average guys around me. Most of them are overweight and out of shape, they seem comfortable with it. I work out, I'm in good physical shape and getting stronger and leaner all the time and I know I look good. I can approach women with success (I'm rarely shot down when I approach end I don't let the rejections beat me down) which is good.

But there are times that I look at a woman that I could cold approach but I don't do anything. Or sometimes when a woman is sending me signals of interest I don't make a move. We can't have every woman anyhow so we can't always approach. But sometimes I feel like it should be her to approach me. I know it's rare that a woman makes the first move but there are times that I just don't feel like approaching but want the woman to do it. Even today there was a HB9 (and yes she is because I overheard a female photographer approach the hottie and tell the slut that she wanted her to "model" for a promotional) who made several walk-bys before finally sitting down at a nearby terminal in the campus library today. Then she started glancing at me every few moments, playing with her necklace, twirling her hair, stroking the left side of her neck, etc. I just played it cool and did my assignment. Finally, though, I asked for her pen to write something down. She shyly gave it to me. When I gave the pen back to the HB, she shyly took it back without looking at me. Then she continued with her earlier behavior. After a while I left.

Now a lot of you guys would call me stupid for doing this. But hey, I am the prize so let her do some work. She could have said: "Hi, my name is [insert name]..." That would have been nice. This isn't the first time I've done this and it won't be the last, other women have done similar things around me. The thing is that after reading the Book of Pook and the threads on this site I know that yes, I'm a desirable guy, yes, I'm the prize, and that I must make the woman qualify herself to me. So that means **I** don't always have to approach, sometimes the woman should approach me first. Afterall, I'm worth it.