Name: JM version 2 2007-09-17 1:40 ID:XiHP+UL+
Okay, here goes...
I used to date this girl for 6 months, but after finding out many of her flaws and f-ed-up-ness, I couldn't deal with them and had to break up with her. She cried so many times... She was definitely unstable, and it was as if her flaws had rubbed on me a little...
And once, she even flat out told me that she cheated on her ex-boyfriend with 3 other guys in one month!! Just to get back at him for his insulting her friends a lot.
Her exact words: "I was his most valued possession, so I thought cheating on him with as many guys as possible would hurt him the most..."
As a lot of other guys, I couldn't deal with those things.
And then,,, after it was over, she kept showing herself to me with her new boyfriend to make me jealous. But even during that period, she was still being nice to me and giving me hugs and even kisses sometimes...
Then one day, she called me up and told me that she wanted to get back together with me again... Of couse, I said NO,, but in a nice way. I didn't want to hurt her, but I didn't want her either.
Then I didn't see her for the whole summer and I thought I forgot about all this.
But she befriended one of my best friend, and now they are hanging out together all the time and stuff... She might be coming on to him, but I know that my friend won't betray me. I had never told my friend about the f-ed up things in that relationship, because I am not a person to spread/talk about those things.
Just seeing her reminds me of all those things that I thought I'd forgotten. And She is even in my school jazz band.. I have to see her almost everyday!
It drives me crazy to think about these things. I wish she would just disappear out of my life. I cannot stand people who use sex as a weapon... And what is she trying to do now with my friend... Am I just being paranoid? What should I do to forget about all this? Should I talk to my friend?
I used to date this girl for 6 months, but after finding out many of her flaws and f-ed-up-ness, I couldn't deal with them and had to break up with her. She cried so many times... She was definitely unstable, and it was as if her flaws had rubbed on me a little...
And once, she even flat out told me that she cheated on her ex-boyfriend with 3 other guys in one month!! Just to get back at him for his insulting her friends a lot.
Her exact words: "I was his most valued possession, so I thought cheating on him with as many guys as possible would hurt him the most..."
As a lot of other guys, I couldn't deal with those things.
And then,,, after it was over, she kept showing herself to me with her new boyfriend to make me jealous. But even during that period, she was still being nice to me and giving me hugs and even kisses sometimes...
Then one day, she called me up and told me that she wanted to get back together with me again... Of couse, I said NO,, but in a nice way. I didn't want to hurt her, but I didn't want her either.
Then I didn't see her for the whole summer and I thought I forgot about all this.
But she befriended one of my best friend, and now they are hanging out together all the time and stuff... She might be coming on to him, but I know that my friend won't betray me. I had never told my friend about the f-ed up things in that relationship, because I am not a person to spread/talk about those things.
Just seeing her reminds me of all those things that I thought I'd forgotten. And She is even in my school jazz band.. I have to see her almost everyday!
It drives me crazy to think about these things. I wish she would just disappear out of my life. I cannot stand people who use sex as a weapon... And what is she trying to do now with my friend... Am I just being paranoid? What should I do to forget about all this? Should I talk to my friend?