Name: Anonymous 2007-09-04 11:37 ID:CDxJGH+j
Hi I'm 23 never had a girl friend I'm not a bad looking guy, I'm just really shy when it comes to women, I've only ever been on one date which was a disaster, I remember I was sick before going on the date, and felt ill for weeks dwelling failing to impress which I knew was going to happen, Which has added to my fears.
When it comes to talking to girls I don't know how to talk to them unless there girl m8s, chatting women up is on a different level how do you do it?, you carn't just approach a stranger in the street and ask them out on a date
Things seem to be changing in my social life at the moment which I'm finding hard It was always me and my m8s going out to pubs and clubs but now they all seem to have girl friends who come out with us all the time, they all seem on best behaviour and wana settle down the atmosphere so different around them I carn't seem to enjoy myself around them because I'm jealous of them. my best m8 has just started going out with his first girlfriend It was always just me and him which helped me not feel so bad, but even hes gone away with his girlfriend today, I feel so on my own
I find it hard to smile I just want to cry I'm so scared of being left on my own for life which I can see happening,
Today I was so depressed after thinking about in the gym I got in my car and just drove for 2 hrs untill I got into a city I never been before and spent money on anything.
My dream is if I had a girfriend I could go places a bit more and not feel so lonely go out with her for meals, holiday aboad, theme parks Its something I always think about.
People at work keep irritating me about not having a girlfriend I feel a bit embarressed when they mention it and makes me feel really depressed.
When it comes to talking to girls I don't know how to talk to them unless there girl m8s, chatting women up is on a different level how do you do it?, you carn't just approach a stranger in the street and ask them out on a date
Things seem to be changing in my social life at the moment which I'm finding hard It was always me and my m8s going out to pubs and clubs but now they all seem to have girl friends who come out with us all the time, they all seem on best behaviour and wana settle down the atmosphere so different around them I carn't seem to enjoy myself around them because I'm jealous of them. my best m8 has just started going out with his first girlfriend It was always just me and him which helped me not feel so bad, but even hes gone away with his girlfriend today, I feel so on my own
I find it hard to smile I just want to cry I'm so scared of being left on my own for life which I can see happening,
Today I was so depressed after thinking about in the gym I got in my car and just drove for 2 hrs untill I got into a city I never been before and spent money on anything.
My dream is if I had a girfriend I could go places a bit more and not feel so lonely go out with her for meals, holiday aboad, theme parks Its something I always think about.
People at work keep irritating me about not having a girlfriend I feel a bit embarressed when they mention it and makes me feel really depressed.