Hitting the g-spot

I want to try fingering my girl friend some time soon and I want to make it as pleasurable as possible for her. I've heard that I can massage her G-spot while licking her clit and that will drive her absolutely nuts with pleasure.

How do I find the g spot, apparently it's about 2 inches into the vagina and on the upper wall. Will it be obvious when I hit it, like does it feel different or will she immediately react?

Also about how long will it take for her to have an explosive orgasm after I start? 5 minutes, 10 minutes? longer?

Thanks

over 9000 hours if you're lucky

I'm being serious.

>>4
is a proud virgin and can not help you with this question.

Fingering her doesn't mean you lose your virginity. You have to put your dick in for that.

Easy as can be. You'll be able to feel a rough spot on the top, kind of like the inside of the roof of your mouth. However finding it is the only easy thing. You need to listen very carefully to what I say next:

Every woman is different, and it takes time (and her communication) to figure out what she likes and doesn't like.

I wish it was that simple to just go at it and get them all off the same way, but it takes practice and watching/asking her. And she won't just go nuts when you get it. Trust me, porn is just acting, in real life it can take 20 minutes to get it to feel right, or she just might stay quiet about it the entire time. It's entirely up the girl.

There are some things you can watch for. Squeezing you/your fingers (some girls rock at this), her breathing, her hips moving, any twitches--but it can all be quite subtle, sadly. And don't even get me started on the clitoris and oral sex. There's a lot to learn, so practice hard, with the intent on putting her ahead of yourself and you'll get better, and she'll keep you around longer for showing her that she comes first.

it feels like ground beef

with her lying on her back turn your hand with the palm facing up and place your ring and middle finger inside, then pull up pressing your finger tips against the g spot repeatedly

she has to be horny first for this to work

Practice makes perfect and make sure shes comfortable. make sure your comfortable, have a drink before she comes over, or you get over there, loosen up a bit. breathings a good one to listen for. It might be hard to hear her breathing, but you can always check out her tits rising. Watch her mouth aswell, most girls bite their lip, and if you guys talk about what you want then she might feel more comfortable being vocal for your benefit and MOST IMPORTANTLY HERSELF.
remember, if you can get it right, youve just made a friend for life.

Anon above has a good point, Every woman is different, and it takes time (and her communication) to figure out what she likes and doesn't like.

>>4
Isn't a "proud" virgin an oxymoron? How does one be proud of not being able to get laid or reproduce?

what a fucking retard

>>10
Actually I bet most 15 year old guys think like him.

Scratch that. Most guys up until their 30's think like this. "zomg, a gurl can do moar than just lie their on dah bed??? y didnt i think of dat!!11"

Also, some women can't have orgasm's "inside". In fact, the majority of women need to get off on clitoral stimulation to finish and most of the time don't orgasm inside.  The best chance of this happening is to turn her on so incredibly much that she just can't stand it, then eat her out and finger her.  She should like that.  Personally it drives me nuts when my bf does that to me, so good luck!  ^.^

>>12

Pics or it didn't happen.

13. no pics because i have nothing to prove to you, i was giving advice to the kid.  why don't you stfu and go jackoff to some porn because that's the only time you'll see a pussy.

>>14
Make me slut! You had sex, you slut! God will smite you, slut!

you people scream too much

>>16
you are obviously not accustomed o the VIP etiquette we follow here

Apparently not

>>15
Get the fuck out, no one likes you.

>>12
Thanks for the advice! I'm worried that she just won't respond very well and I'll have a hard time reading her. A classic case of sitting there and acting disinterested no matter how good it feels. Hopefully that won't happen though.

If I pull this off right is she going to squirt all over the place? I know on some of the pornos they have girls squirting like a fire hydrant, however that is clearly fake acting and forced urine. How much can I expect her to squirt? I'd rather not have some huge mess that I'm not prepared for.

Thanks.



PS: How the heck do you link to different posts with the >># thing?

Nevermind the linking thing, I figured that out, didn't realize it was so easy.

Still need to know about the girl though. =}

RL sex is pretty gay, like srsly u guys O_o

>>21
maybe u had gay sex

Eric- The amount that will squirt out will vary. Every girl is different and some don't even squirt at all. Probably won't be much of a problem though, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Let her know that you want to know what she likes and what she doesn't like.  Some girls are too scared to say what feels good and doesn't, especially if she's young. Reassure her that you want her to have fun and encourage her to respond, like ask dirty questions....things like that. 

And >>21 doesn't know what they are talking about because no matter how much lotion you use, a pussy feels a million times better.

>>12
Perpetuating that idea is akin to the sexual repression women faced for centuries, if not millennia.

Women (and men) don't need to be told that it's difficult and/or impossible to do something. Because then they tend to believe it and start spreading it around. You might as well keep on telling people that the female orgasm is a myth and that women are impossible to understand. I know you may mean well, but that's the effect it tends to have on a lot of people.

Young girls (as well as women in the past) and guys of any age are so impressionable about these issues that they'll screw up their chance of actually understanding and enjoying their bodies.

>>24 I see what you mean, but I never meant that women having orgasms was a myth.  And I may have not gotten my point acrossed correctly, but basically, the easiest way to please a girl is to LISTEN and PAY attention to her body language.  Moaning can make you think she likes it, but if she's pulling away....she's not into it.  Some girls will fake for various reasons, but if it's a young girl, you're right, she's very impressionable, so she might be under the impression that sex is just what all boys want and she might not think of doing things to enjoy herself. 

Women don't tend to enjoy sex until they are older, and I mean FULLY enjoy, not just being an attention whore.  Theres a difference in being fucked, and fucking. 

It may be because women don't get into their prime until they're older, but it could also be because they're under the impression to just give in and sleep with a guy because it's the cool thing, not because she enjoys it.  I'm not saying it's right, I think it's completely fucked up, but that's how I viewed sex for a long time.  Until I found someone who would pay attention to my body, I never had a guy give me a good orgasm that I didn't help with in some way or another.  Take my advice for what you want, I don't care, but I hope this kid does well, because I think it's awesome he wants to get his girlfriend off and NOT just himself. 

And yes, they are impressionable, but we can't come right out and say, 'do this, this, then this and you'll make your woman come in no time' or we'll be setting him up for failure.  He needs to understand that, just like he likes different things, so will she, but she'll probably be more shy about expressing what she likes or doesn't, and that's where listening and paying attention come into play. 

>>25
Totally agreed, of course. I just meant that people get ideas in their head that something is so difficult or impossible so they don't try it, or even begin think it's "bad" to do it.

Immaturity is the prevailing attitude these days.

shut the fuck up you nerds

this is 4chan, you nerds don't know things about vaginas even if you own one and if you do then show pics or GTFO

as a holder of a vagina i can vouch geeks know what they are talking about! geeks are the best fuckers ever! the lack of women makes them last longer and be more powerful in the bedroom. the excessive porn was a learning tool thus they know all the moves and a lot of geek have nice bodies and are really hot under those glasses.

that and many other reasons make me only date geeks or otaku.

>>11
Oh, real nice logic, this fucking generation that's in their late teens and early twenties has no fucking clue how to please their women. I've been with some few 18-23 women and they were absolute FREAKS in bed, and when I asked, explained they were so active because their men weren't.
I then asked them to refer their girlfriends to me.
It's worked out well.

>>28
You had me up until "geek have nice bodies and are really hot under those glasses."

Now I'm disappointed and saddened at the same time :'(

geek's are all mostly ugly ass mother fuckers so stfu lady you dont know what your talkin about.....BITCH!

what handkerchief?

>>31
You have incorrectly used an apostophe.  The word geeks is a mere plural.  You're welcome.

Your tone is rather rude.  Keep it in your pants, cowboy.

Way to bump a five year old thread, dude.

>>32
You have incorrectly spelt apostrophe.

>>33
well in thats case you can go and fuck yourself you stupid cunt