Name: Anonymous 2007-06-22 18:54 ID:ro7DUcqc
3 years ago, I dated a girl for about 3 months. From what I remember, she was very immature when it came to dating: She was really into her friends; left clues that led me to believe she possibly hooking up with a guy that came before me; had an obvious interest in her female friends, yet denied it. Despite all that, I had no problems with her, I was dating other women and never took her seriously, I was justing havig a good time. What annoyed me more than anything was that she wasn't honest when confronted. Thnigs between us just kind of died out... I never called her, she never called me. I never even thought about her when it was over.
She recently called me and said she would like to be friends and keep in touch. Now, I've had a few women call back after an extended absence, but never 3 years. My question to you guys is not whether I should persue something with her, my question is, what possible reason could she have for contacting me?
I've only had one friend who had an ex call him after 3-4 years and it was becuase apologizing to him was one of her twelve steps.
She recently called me and said she would like to be friends and keep in touch. Now, I've had a few women call back after an extended absence, but never 3 years. My question to you guys is not whether I should persue something with her, my question is, what possible reason could she have for contacting me?
I've only had one friend who had an ex call him after 3-4 years and it was becuase apologizing to him was one of her twelve steps.