Hello, I have a question maybe someone can help me with. All of my friends are gay, well atleast most of them. I call myself a MetroSexual, basicly a straight guy who caries all properties of a gay guy. Im very much into fashion, and I love to hang out with guys and mess around. However there is a problem, I'm not what you can call attracted to guys. Maybe it is because I have had no problems with girls, and I find them attrative. I don't even know if I can call myself Bisexual because the attraction isnt there for guys.
My mind set is that of a gay man, I feel what they feel, I understand them, and I could see myself in love with a guy. But I dont have an physical attraction, to me it almost is kinda "Sick". Has anyone been in my situation, and will I ever have an attraction?
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Anonymous2007-05-06 6:05 ID:mYGEAWdu
metrosexual IS NOT A guy who carries the qualities of a GAY but not gay
"Though the term has undergone a transformation from its original meaning (a heterosexual man who appeared or acted as if he were homosexual or bisexual)"
kthxbai
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Anonymous2007-05-06 8:35 ID:Cm8pfcLD
you probably won't. can't change who you are =P
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Anonymous2007-05-06 13:27 ID:IJwDZXhJ
IM BICURIOUS
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Anonymous2007-05-06 20:09 ID:ASNa5vUz
First: Define "Physically Attracted"
Second: How do you have the "mindset" of a gay man? Last I checked gay is a sexual orientation that draws attraction from the similar sex. People have turned homosexuality into a "culture." Your post treats gays like animals, Like an animal talker communicating with the spirit of a house pet. I can FEEL what they FEEL. I KNOw what they KNOW.
Third: Why do you care about where you fall in? If you find it unbearable to have a relationship beyond friendship, You probably aren't "lovingly" attracted to that person.
Maybe you should consult your inner-self for a minute. Think of who you would be "gay" with. Why do you want to be gay? Is it to fit in? To feel more involved in your group? If you can't find any real reasons why being gay is a decision beyond the attempt to please those around you, do everybody in the realm of sanity a favor and find help. I don't think I can offer much more advice.