Why do nice guys get all the chicks?

A common theme amongst 4chan users is how they can't get chicks.  And very few of these people have demonstrated that they're nice guys.  So why do all the chicks end up flocking towards the nice guys?

I feel like one day i might be capable of having a "happy" relationshit, but due to the rejection, isolation and rejection just not being capable of being happy or really social. But still capable of acting happy and social, but this being a horrific experience.
I mean if a girl would love you but you simply hate her because of the endless troubles you had in your social life, like if you put on happy face but just want to kill her in the most brutal way possible. Hating them because of jelousy but wanting to be one of them. Realising that they love from the same impulses like the ridicule you. Seeing only how the are animals of impulse, only following their needs in a simple iterative matter. Breeding like rabits consuming and hoping to keep breeding forever and keeping up their weak and useless, impulse didctated lifes.
Simply not being capable of "feeling human" anymore, like having something taken from you.
Its not like i really care, i realised long ago that emotions are just chemicals that produce reactions a different reaction, meant only to initiate behavior that has become obsolete. Only to be slave to a weak and only selfserving system.
I realise the mechanics of my emotional troubles and dismiss them as interfering signals and only concentrate on my own goals without any reason or gain of pursuing them. But i wonder who i truly am, if i could live a normal life without remembering who they are, why they do what they do and not seeing them with their true faces.
One day i will have to find out, i know how they think, why they do what they do and how to be one of them, but will i still be me? The possibility of losing sight why i hate them makes me scared, but i am scared of remaining who i am.

Anyone here feel the same like me?

I dont mean to start a fight here or make a whinefest out of this, im just curious.

Yours truly VIPPER.