need advice..

I’m a 20 year old college student. Blonde hair, blue eyes, 6ft tall. I come from very wealthy family (im not one of those snobby rich people) and im going to college on a full athletic scholarship. Not only am I athletic but im intelligent as well. I get good grades without trying in school and I have a real high IQ. I consider myself more of a street smart person than a book smart person (I know people very well). As an athlete, I train every day. On top of practice, in my own time, I work out in the weight room for an average of about 1.5 hours a day. I am lean and toned but not huge. I mainly work out to improve in my sport but I also work out to look and feel good. Honestly, I don’t think I can do anything more to improve the way I look in the weight room. Now that you know a little about me you must think im good with girls or at least decent. The truth is I suck with girls. In fact, I have worse luck with girls than just about everyone I know. The main reason for this comes from my shyness. I am VERY shy and from experience people automatically think you’re stupid from first impressions if you’re shy. It takes me a long time to warm up to a person but when I do I have a great personality.

I have had a lot of girls turn their head in my direction but I always fail to do anything about it before it’s too late. Some of the best looking girls in my school have given me hints that they like me. If I tell any of my friends of this, they just laugh and tell me to stop dreaming. From experience I have found that unlike guys, girls will lose attraction very soon if you don’t show any interest. So by the time I do try to do anything about a situation, it’s a lost cause. When I am with a girl that im not attracted to or I know I have no reason to like, im totally different. For example, there have been a few occasions were my friends girlfriends started to like me. One girl broke up with my friend because she liked me so much (I didn’t do anything with her because the guy was a good friend and what she did was a huge turn off for me). I was not trying to hit on these girls and make them like me but knowing that I don’t want to be with them gets rid of my mental block and I act like myself around them even if they are super attractive. If I acted like this around girls I am trying to hook up with, I wouldn’t have any problems and I think I would be very successful.
The fact is that I know im worthy of at least some of the girls I see and like but because of my mental block and extreme shyness I always seem to fail. I have been trying for years to improve on my social skills and get rid of my shyness but I don’t seem to be improving.
Im sure a lot of you have gone through this in one way or another. I have been trying to get the balls to just say screw it and take chances without being so shy. In reality there are no consequences for me to approach a girl that I like. I know this. It’s so simple to say and think about but it seems impossible for me to do.
What are your thoughts? I’m looking for some good advice from people who have been through, and overcame what I am dealing with. I’m not looking for some common sense replies that I already know or have certainly tried. Please remember I have gotten to the point of looking for some tips and advice through online forums. It’s obvious that I have tried a lot to overcome some of my problems.

stfu nigar

Tl;DR, this thread is now about nigars.

Warning: This is a terrible idea.

Alcohol?

You must be one ugly mutherfukker, cuz dude, I work out and study that hard (if not harder) and I ain't never gotta worry

Are there NIGARS in russia?

try and not be yourself at first.
that might sound dumb but, try and be who you want to be outgoing and see if it works, it worked for me!<3

considering what I read, try being everything else BUT yourself, ok? You might stand a chance

I couldn't read all that shit.

Obviously you suck at girls. That's why you're here. Just loosen up and quit being a faggot. We all have to do it at some point. Hopefully you'll meet a girl that you can be yourself around. If not, there's always faggotry.