Help /lounge, I love my sister

Over the past year I've been trying to lie to myself, to think on something else, even got laid and tried to fall in love with other girls, anything but admitting what I, deep down inside, already knew.

I love my sister. Not in the way most brothers love their sisters, but in the way a man loves a woman. Not because of some silly fetish either; when I say love, I mean real, "I'll go to the end of the world for you" love.

My sister is only one year younger than me, making her 20, and currently doesn't have a boyfriend. She's pretty, at least to my eyes, but this is not fueling this. It's her personality. I like no other girl this much. We always had a lot of chemistry,  it's as if we were engineered to be together. Only we happened to share our parents. I'm sure if we had been born in different families, we would be the happiest couple in the world right now.

Lately, I realized I could not give up on this, but I'm kind of scared. I know this is fucked up. But I don't know what to do. I've been avoiding her for a couple of weeks, and this is causing her suffering, which in turn breaks my heart. I don't know if I should confess my love and face the consequences of experiencing a kind of love that's considered unacceptable in our society, even from her, or just let it pass and die inside.

Help me /lounge, what should I do? I think she may be feeling something similar for me becuase we are very close and she considers me attractive, but I don't know to what extent this may only be wishful thinking on my part. Knowing her, I'm sure she won't be angry at me if I tell her how I feel, but I don't know for sure if she'll feel the same about me. I'm positive our parents and everybody else in our family and community will oppose such love, but if she loves me, I'm willing to face all of them or move to some other country to start a new life with her. But I wouldn't want to put pressure on her or make her feel uneasy, so while I think I should confess, I'm not 100% sure and I don't know to what extent what I think is distorted by my strong affection for her.

>>289,292
Why am I confused? Because I like the "wrong" person? My love is "wrong"? Oooh, you can't love your sister because the church said so. Or because others don't. Who's being confused here?

I doubt it's "love".
I don't have the very least bit of doubt that it's love, the kind of love I could have for any girl, which I happened to have for my sister. I'm more than certain of it. As our relationship matures, I can only verify I, we were right. It's not about sex. It's not about seeing my sister naked in the bathroom. It's about love. The kind that makes your stomach hurt. The kind that gives you the strongest emotions you can feel. The kind that makes you think about living together with a woman. That kind of love. Sex is just a sport for us, and we were in love before having any of it. We're not together because we had sex, we had sex because we were together.

My brother and I have a really close relationship and I'd go to the end of the earth for him. He's my best friend. We're also only a year apart, me being the younger one. But I've just always concidered that a normal brother/sister relationship.
But because you don't feel that way it doesn't mean I can't or I shouldn't, does it? We feel that way. Regardless of what caused it, we feel that way, and we're happy because of it, and we're hurting no one.

I think you need to go see a psychiatrist about this if it's affecting you that much.
Would you send a fag to a psychiatrist because he's wrong?

But don't do anything drastic and definitley don't tell her this.
Oh, you didn't read all of my posts, did you? I already did. We're both in love. We're a couple.

losing your sister
Nah, even if she didn't feel this way, I wouldn't have lost her. I know her well, she's my sister. She wouldn't have been mad. And at first, I thought this was the scenario, but then she wanted to give it a try. I didn't press her or anything, it came from her own will (at first, she only said she had to think over it).

>>294
you know that if you have sex with someone withing your immeadiate family your gunna have some fucked up kids.
No, I don't "gunna". Because having sex doesn't mean having kids. Did you learn about this at school?

>>298
Another possibility is the cops busted him for incest
LOL. No, I don't know about others, but my country doesn't regulate sex. I don't know about marriage, but that's a non-issue. We're not even thinking on marrying yet; for now we're just a couple. And if the state didn't allow us to marry, we wouldn't care. We can still live together. Love is more important than what law written in a book says, whether this book is a "holy" one, or a "democratic" one, both things quoted because I wouldn't call either so.

>>347
Incest is bad, because diversity = good in genetic terms!!!
This is about love, not about "having an optimal environment for breeding genetically ideal humans". Would you choose who you love based on the optimal genes? I think nobody ever cares for this. And you're running too far, we haven't even decided to marry, let alone having children. We probably won't, in all cases.

>>356
I wish I had a hot older brother to ravish me and tell me he loves me.
That was fucking hot, madam.