Ok I'm going to be honest with you. I'm 21 have no social skills and all my friends from high school have disappeared, i had one good friend in college but ive lost contact aswell, i've spent the last 2 years unemployed living with my dad doing nothing but going on /b/ and fapping.
What should I do?
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Anonymous2006-10-23 18:00
Pursue a goal that seems nearly outta reach.
most times, it's not.
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Anonymous2006-10-23 18:17
Dude! I'm in the same boat, but 23. Pursuing a goal seems like a good idea. The past couple months I've been using the tax payers' money to outfit myself with a decent, adult looking wardrobe instead of wearing the same stuff I wore in high school. A cellphone might be good, too.
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Anonymous2006-10-23 18:24
I recommend watching Prince of Tennis. it will change your life!
>>7
Mup da doo didda po mo gub dat tum muhfugen bix nood cof bin dub ho muhfugga
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Anonymous2006-10-23 21:43
>>1
Same boat chief, I have nfi what to do with my life. I simply have no motivation to do ANYTHING. Everyday I wake up thinking I'm just wasting away the best years of my life not getting laid & doing nothing.
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Anonymous2006-10-23 21:57
I blame my shitty parents for my lack of motivation. They gave me everything so I never learned how to do things for myself :(
Yeah, I already used the boat analogy. >>9 should have thought of something else
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Anonymous2006-10-23 22:16
>>10
my parents never taught me to stick up for myself, always with the mindset that "fighting never solved anything." They never hit me, and always had passive aggressive ways of punishing me (grounding, no allowance, etc)
now that I look back on it, I probably shoulda been smacked around a bit.
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Anonymous2006-10-23 22:32
I don't think being smacked around helps much... I mean it happened to me plenty, and I toughened up, etc. But I'm still a lazy bastard.
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Anonymous2006-10-23 22:42
>>14
I agree that teaching your kids NOT to fight is stupid!
Fighting never solved anything? Tell that to the kid who got picked on every day and the picking stopped when he brought a bat to school and smashed in the face of the asshole.
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Anonymous2006-10-24 0:53
O wow thx guys. I get the impression I should do something, anything. To be quite honest I don't particularly care about getting laid. I am an excellent philosopher and value the truth very highly, I will write a book.
Well, for one, getting friends on 4chan could help. Also, try to get a job where you have to interact with people. I'm a girl, 18, who's not very good with the general population, but since I started working at a near-bye Albertsons, I've been learning some social skills.
Good luck!
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Anonymous2006-10-24 7:33
>>2
Agreed, pursue a goal. It can nearly anything as long as you want it done. Your life will be a lot more fulfilling.
To everyone bitching about movitation problems:
You're at least 18, and your parents aren't responsible for your actions anymore, they never really were to begin with. If you are unable to motivate yourself to do anything, try not using anyone else's money for anything. Lack of motivation wasn't a problem a century ago because if you weren't motivated to do a job, you didn't get to eat things.