I think i'm turning Bi.

Well... i've been straight all my life up to now... but I think i'm starting to fall for my best friend.

This isn't the first time it's happened, I fell in love with another best friend of mine about a year ago. I still haven't got up the courage to tell her.

Now, i'm really starting to fall for him. He's halfway across the world, and I haven't met him irl though. He's always been kinda loose, and officially decided he's bi last month.

I don't know what to do. Have the time i'm fantasizing about the first friend, half the time i'm fantasizing about the guy.

I don't really want to be gay, but he's the best friend i've ever had, and I know he cares about me..

>>10
I can't help but lol at that post. Especially considering the content of this thread. "im a gurl, rlly! y dont u bileev me!"

>>2
You make me laugh too. "Everyone else was all pissed at him, but I forgave him really quickly, and figured out it was because I still had feelings for him. So I figured out I was bi."

That's what you base your sexuality on? Liking/loving someone? So in other words you're saying, "I can only love you if I'm sexually attracted to you, and since I love you I must be bi then, yay me."

"Loving" a person has nothing to do with gender, nor the ability to have sex with them. Oh, and ironically enough a guy said he "fell in love" with me as he was pretending to be a girl too. So I sort of know where you're coming from.

Just because most couples lose "love" around the same time they lose interest in sex doesn't mean that's really it.