I finally figured out the secret to women

I was in the shower today, and it finally hit me. I've been going about this all wrong. My attitude towards women, the way I treat them, the way I go about hitting on them, everything.

What people were all saying was right. Nice guys don't win. Self confidence is all that matters. I finally realized, there probably isn't a single woman in history who ever picked a guy for the reason "well, he was nicer to me than all the other guys." That's not how women think.

So how are you supposed to go about it? I think the key of course is self confidence, but if you're not really confident, what is the best way to fake it?

That's when I had an epiphany and I think the answer is, just act as if they rejecting you will be a bigger loss for them than it is for you. And the key to accomplishing this is:

NEVER GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO DO ANYTHING NICE FOR WOMEN. NEVER.

Women expect men to be insensitive, lazy pigs. If you're going out of your way to be nice to her, that is a clear sign of desperation and that you are trying "earn" her affection.
NEVER LET A WOMAN KNOW THAT YOU ARE BEING NICE TO EARN HER AFFECTION.

So the thing to do is to be a "normal" man. That is, you are occasionally nice to a woman because you have no other choice(ie it's her birthday, it's your anniversary, etc), not because you want to.

So what do you guys think? Am I right in all of this?

You know, I just had a girl break up with me a lil over a month ago. Now she told me it was because she didn't love me. What was weird is that she told me she did, apparently everything she did was to make me happy. Now I got to thinking and asking what the hell I did wrong. Sure I can accept that one sided loves never work, but then I thought about all the things we did do and all the kindnesses I paid to her. She hated all of them. I would hold the door open, carry her over puddles, stupid little gentlemmen type shit like that, and she hated it. What's worse it that I was willing to give up anything for her. Now there is a part of me that figures that is what drove her away (even though she said she wanted to be friends with me still) is what I was willing to do for her.

"A woman can forgive a man for the harm he does her but she can never forgive him for the sacrifices he makes on her account." -Somerset Maugha