I finally figured out the secret to women

I was in the shower today, and it finally hit me. I've been going about this all wrong. My attitude towards women, the way I treat them, the way I go about hitting on them, everything.

What people were all saying was right. Nice guys don't win. Self confidence is all that matters. I finally realized, there probably isn't a single woman in history who ever picked a guy for the reason "well, he was nicer to me than all the other guys." That's not how women think.

So how are you supposed to go about it? I think the key of course is self confidence, but if you're not really confident, what is the best way to fake it?

That's when I had an epiphany and I think the answer is, just act as if they rejecting you will be a bigger loss for them than it is for you. And the key to accomplishing this is:

NEVER GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO DO ANYTHING NICE FOR WOMEN. NEVER.

Women expect men to be insensitive, lazy pigs. If you're going out of your way to be nice to her, that is a clear sign of desperation and that you are trying "earn" her affection.
NEVER LET A WOMAN KNOW THAT YOU ARE BEING NICE TO EARN HER AFFECTION.

So the thing to do is to be a "normal" man. That is, you are occasionally nice to a woman because you have no other choice(ie it's her birthday, it's your anniversary, etc), not because you want to.

So what do you guys think? Am I right in all of this?

>>24
Lulz. There aren't any girls on the internets! But srsly, I'm a just a guy with an IQ above 80. Just because you want to have sex with somone, doesn't mean you should discount the fact that they have a mind of their own, with all the same thoughts and feelings you can have. Of course, your brilliant conclusion that I am female leads me to beleive that I'm wasting my time. "But if you're jsut being nice because you want ass they'll see right through it." - You can fool everyone some of the time. They may or may not see through it, and this is essentially the advice offered by most dating tips sites, since it assumed that if you have a penis, you also have the personality of wallpaper, and really just want to sit in a pool of your own greasy sweat all day watching football, occasionally getting up to have sex.