I have a black coworker who has a son. She herself is overweight, to the point that her head looks like a thumb, but she's probably not much more than 230 pounds at 5'8". She is still mobile, and she doesn't waddle or jiggle all over the place. Her son, on the other hand, makes me shudder. He is easily 300 pounds, if not more, at around 5'6", and he can't be much older than 13. His voice is still high. He wheezes and coughs all the time, has really bad asthma, and he can't bring his limbs in close to his body. I went over to the office where my coworker works, and her son was sitting in front of me as I worked on the office's PC, and her son was eating a whole Bundt cake for lunch. I'm not trying to be all "lol fat people are gross and subhuman," but his wheezing and her enabling disturbed me so much that I had to excuse myself.