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Anonymous2010-12-22 4:58
Hi guys
I didn't even take up Amagami Challange, but I've been in relationship for like a month, so I guess I unconsciously 'won'.
We won't be together at christmas eve though, since she came back to her hometown for christmas. But it's my first, let's say, 'serious' relationship. We'll spend new year's eve together.
What can I say, guys... Keep trying. Remember this: with every girl you try to pick up, with every girl that rejects you, you gain EXPERIENCE. Look at all this knowledge you got since 09-11. You've made a progress, even if you don't know it.
You guys didn't fail. Not yet. You will fail when you give up. Don't let this experience you got to be wasted. Amagami Challange never ends!
I'm not an expert. I don't know how long my relationship with my gf will last. But there are some practical pieces of advice I want to share with you. These helped me a lot, hope they will help you too. Ok, here we go:
1. Respect yourself. Your happiness comes first, let her find her own.
2. Never lie to a woman. She'll know that you're lying (don't ask me, I dumno how the fuck they do this)
3. Be honest. If she does something you don't like, say it. Tell her what you feel. pr0tip: no, you DON'T love. You may like her, you may find her attractive, you may want to know her better, but you don't love her yet. Trust me on that.
4. If she goes out with you, she finds you attractive in some way. You don't believe me? Would you want to waste your time for someone you find unattractive?
5. Touch her. I didn't mean to go for her boobs on first date, but it's ok to play with her hands (you DO like her nail varnish, and you want to touch it).
6. About kissing... hug her first, then kiss. Don't be pushy, you'l know the right moment. First kiss is almost always soft, so don't be too passionate.
7. Be self-confident. Dude, she's JUST a girl. The worst thing she can do is to reject you. There are more women than men on earth, so you are already on better position. If she doesn't want you, who cares. Just move on.
8. First meetings should take place somewhere where you can talk a lot with each other. Coffe house is a good idea, maybe not original, but why the fuck should you take somewhere unique if you don't know her yet?
9. If she's not your girlfriend yet, don't engage too much. I mean, why should you do this?
10. Have fun! That's right, it's all about having fun. What's the point in being with a girl that brings you down? Enjoy talking with girls, interacting with them and a lot things will be easier for you.