Hey! just because he/she might be a gay black person, that doesn't make them a disgrace. It's people who are so fucking insecure about their own masculinity/femininity that feel the need to bring other people down with them. Go to the yaoi site, and also check out
http://yaoi.y-gallery.net/ and decide wether it's the thing for you. If it is, all the more power to you. If not, well, at least you know now.^-^>w< good luck!