Okay...I am a former model who is straight, that men drool over so there goes your theory you narrow-minded twit. I read it because I think everyone should be allowed to LOVE the soul. Plus, most yaoi's show the true struggle that men have going through their sexuality which adds more drama to the story and that is why I read them. A read good one is Zetsuai (about a straight guy who falls for another straight guy who seems familiar but he can't figure out why...but later does - I won't say why because it would be a spoiler), but it is a real heart breaker. But, more Shounen Ai than Yaoi, the follow up to Zetsuai is Bronze, which is more Yaoi. Also Mirage of Blaze is great, but they just started translating it. I have read a lot of the other recommendations and I can say they are all pretty much on the money about them being good.
Here is a descent web site that is not on many maps
http://yaoiheaven.multiply.com and
http://dpscanlations.deathsvertigo.com/. If you go to a lot of forums they will list some sites, I will say this I have never read this kind of negative response to this question before...this person is a closet "yaoi" fan and is taking it out on the rest of us...I think the person do protest too much if you ask me. Well, I hope all the "positive" responses helped. Just ignore "negative" people, they do nothing but take up space on this planet. Peace and love on your search.