Yaoi "community" is rotten by retarded fangirls who are homophobic (yes they are, just try to talk about lesbians with them) and most of time, TOO MUCH UGLY.
Most of "men who like yaoi but aren't gay" are just heteros who loves ultra feminine shota boy.
I'd like to talk about gay/bi men who like yaoi, but saddly, except me and 2/3 people, i never found any.
Non porns yaoi suck, i have never red a good yaoi manga, or watched a good yaoi anime, and i red/watched a lot. If you're gonna talk to me about gravitations, please don't or if you do im gonna smack you in the face.
But if you know some good yaoi manga/anime just tell me.
Porns yaoi are too much fangirls oriented. With the "Boyish Seme X Girlish Seme Boy" crap.
Too much posts of /y/ are some fanarts with anatomics badly drawn by yaoi fangirls who never seen a penis from their whole 14yearsold life.
Despite that (and that's a lot), we still can find some good things.